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Logo besexy 9 Tips to Better Foreplay for Guys

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Logo besexy 9 Tips to Better Foreplay for Guys

Why is Foreplay Important?

Men reach orgasm quicker and more often than women. That’s the reality. It takes the average healthy male approximately 5 minutes to reach climax while the average healthy female can take 17 minutes or more. This is called the orgasm gap.

The good news is men can close the gap with....you guessed it...a little foreplay!

A study showed only 6% of women reach orgasm through penile-vaginal intercourse (Kontula, Miettinen, 2016), so good foreplay is a critical tool to help both of you reach climax together and have her reach climax more often.

Skipping foreplay means she is most likely not enjoying sex as much as you think she is.

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